As a humor keynote professional speaker, I have this video for you. It is dedicated to all who have served in the military a Heartfelt Thank You! Here is a story of inspiration.
"My Brother Gave Me the Finger".
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Family Members
Earlier this morning I took my 16 year old Lab Casey for a walk. I swear I couldn't help but wonder if she needed to go, or if she sensed that I needed to get out in the fresh air to clear my head.
Dogs are like that you know. Not only do they have a keen sense of knowing that something is not right with you, but they usually know what to do to make you feel better. All you have to do is pay attention to the message that they are trying to convey.
If they come along and drop a ball in front of you, then that's time for you to put your troubles aside and play. If they approach you and put their head in your lap, that's their way of letting you know that they are there and it's time to let go and cuddle. If they walk over to the door, look you straight in the face and bark, they could very well be telling you that you, need to go for a walk.
If you acknowledge any of the obvious gestures that these four legged angels are trying to convey to you, you will be amazed on how therapeutic their motives can be. Dogs are natural healers. Dogs are teachers. Dogs have a spiritual essence about them. It's not a coincidence what happens when you spell DOG backwards.
I have 4 Labs in all; Casey, who I just mentioned, Brandy, age 12, Jessie, age 8 and our newest addition Wally who will be 2 in December. They are not my pets. They are family members. Each one has the ability to sense when something is wrong. Each has their own personality and unique gift to give. I thank God every day for their uncanny way of showing me the true meaning of unconditional love.
Dogs are like that you know. Not only do they have a keen sense of knowing that something is not right with you, but they usually know what to do to make you feel better. All you have to do is pay attention to the message that they are trying to convey.
If they come along and drop a ball in front of you, then that's time for you to put your troubles aside and play. If they approach you and put their head in your lap, that's their way of letting you know that they are there and it's time to let go and cuddle. If they walk over to the door, look you straight in the face and bark, they could very well be telling you that you, need to go for a walk.
If you acknowledge any of the obvious gestures that these four legged angels are trying to convey to you, you will be amazed on how therapeutic their motives can be. Dogs are natural healers. Dogs are teachers. Dogs have a spiritual essence about them. It's not a coincidence what happens when you spell DOG backwards.
I have 4 Labs in all; Casey, who I just mentioned, Brandy, age 12, Jessie, age 8 and our newest addition Wally who will be 2 in December. They are not my pets. They are family members. Each one has the ability to sense when something is wrong. Each has their own personality and unique gift to give. I thank God every day for their uncanny way of showing me the true meaning of unconditional love.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
The Most Valuable Lesson
On October 13, 2010 I spoke for over 300 district and field managers for American Family Mutual Life Insurance Company. The mission for the event was to provide them with resources, tools and information on how to deal with the many changes the organization is now experiencing. Oh, by the way, I had a blast with this group. I could tell in an instant that they were there to learn and laugh.
The following evening I was asked to go out to dinner with a few of the participants. This is without a doubt one of the perks of my business. I absolutely love getting to know people on a personal level. The laughter is usually non-stop and complemented by intriguing conversation.
During dinner someone asked me, “What was one of the most valuable lessons I've learned about being successful and happy.” Without missing a beat I said, "When I came to the realization that nothing in life is wasted if I learn from it. I now know that every step forward and backward along the way towards success was necessary to prepare me to recognize and receive the gift when it was revealed to me. I needed every experience, I mean every experience: the good and the bad, the successes and the failures, the pain and the glory, to help me grow. I can honestly say I am grateful for all of my feelings and emotions; especially, the ones where I questioned my sanity. I am grateful for the peace, the anger, the love, and the fear."
Then in the voice of Forrest Gump I said, "That's all I have to say about that." Of course everyone applauded because I do a Great Forrest Gump.
The following evening I was asked to go out to dinner with a few of the participants. This is without a doubt one of the perks of my business. I absolutely love getting to know people on a personal level. The laughter is usually non-stop and complemented by intriguing conversation.
During dinner someone asked me, “What was one of the most valuable lessons I've learned about being successful and happy.” Without missing a beat I said, "When I came to the realization that nothing in life is wasted if I learn from it. I now know that every step forward and backward along the way towards success was necessary to prepare me to recognize and receive the gift when it was revealed to me. I needed every experience, I mean every experience: the good and the bad, the successes and the failures, the pain and the glory, to help me grow. I can honestly say I am grateful for all of my feelings and emotions; especially, the ones where I questioned my sanity. I am grateful for the peace, the anger, the love, and the fear."
Then in the voice of Forrest Gump I said, "That's all I have to say about that." Of course everyone applauded because I do a Great Forrest Gump.
Friday, October 1, 2010
To Struggling Performers & Artists Everywhere
September 28, 2010 I donated my services and spoke to AFTRA, (American Federation of Television and Radio Association.) Although it was a small group, (actors, dancers, performers and writers) the response was huge. I'm still getting e-mails thanking me for showing them how to cope with so many of the unique problems and challenges that people in the entertainment field have to contend with on a daily basses.
I think what made this particular event so special for me was that I totally and sympathetically understood their plight. I know first hand that it's not easy to endure constant rejection. It's not easy to accept that the screenplay you put your heart and soul into has been sent back to you, again. It's not easy admitting to yourself that you blew it when you auditioned for a part in a movie or TV show that you swear was written for you.
It's never easy to work 2 part time jobs, live on instant noodles, run from audition to audition and still keep your wits about you, but that you must. Remember, never loose your ability to see the humor and laugh out loud in the face of life's chaotic moments and incomprehensibility's. "Laughter is the pit stop in the Rat Race of life. It gives you the repairs and fuel you need to continue."
But one thing performers, artists and entertainers can and should always be grateful for: It's the life you chose. You are following your hearts desire. There aren't many people on this planet who can say that.
There aren't any guarantees that you will achieve the success you desire. But one thing is certain: The odds will be in your favor, if you believe in yourself, speak words that empower you, take action with passion and enthusiasm, and choose to enjoy yourself during the process. Don't let the critics bring you down!!!!!!! In the big scheme of things, it really doesn't matter what they think. The only thing that matters is what you think.
I wish you all the very best. I am so grateful that I was able to help in some way.
I think what made this particular event so special for me was that I totally and sympathetically understood their plight. I know first hand that it's not easy to endure constant rejection. It's not easy to accept that the screenplay you put your heart and soul into has been sent back to you, again. It's not easy admitting to yourself that you blew it when you auditioned for a part in a movie or TV show that you swear was written for you.
It's never easy to work 2 part time jobs, live on instant noodles, run from audition to audition and still keep your wits about you, but that you must. Remember, never loose your ability to see the humor and laugh out loud in the face of life's chaotic moments and incomprehensibility's. "Laughter is the pit stop in the Rat Race of life. It gives you the repairs and fuel you need to continue."
But one thing performers, artists and entertainers can and should always be grateful for: It's the life you chose. You are following your hearts desire. There aren't many people on this planet who can say that.
There aren't any guarantees that you will achieve the success you desire. But one thing is certain: The odds will be in your favor, if you believe in yourself, speak words that empower you, take action with passion and enthusiasm, and choose to enjoy yourself during the process. Don't let the critics bring you down!!!!!!! In the big scheme of things, it really doesn't matter what they think. The only thing that matters is what you think.
I wish you all the very best. I am so grateful that I was able to help in some way.
Monday, September 13, 2010
Job Well Done And We Had Fun
Last week I invited my friends and business associates Ed Primeau and Shelley Sink to spend 4 days and 3 nights at my home. The plan was to make this visit a joint venture of business/vacation and I must say that it was a brilliant idea. We all had an absolute blast! Great food, great wine and non-stop laughter!
As far as the business aspect of our venture, mission was accomplished. Ed and Shelley are the best at what they do. We created an incredible Video Demo to present to SHOWTIME for my new special. I am very pleased at the results. It just goes to show, business doesn't always have to be work, it can and should be fun!
As far as the business aspect of our venture, mission was accomplished. Ed and Shelley are the best at what they do. We created an incredible Video Demo to present to SHOWTIME for my new special. I am very pleased at the results. It just goes to show, business doesn't always have to be work, it can and should be fun!
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Think Bold Pray Bold
Last week Gina and I took a 4 hour drive to my brother Michael's summer home in up-state New York. We both needed some time off, away from the usual hustle and bustle. The drive up was very relaxing. The scenery was absolutely beautiful. I already sensed that 3 days away from work was exactly what I needed.
I was working diligently on a number of projects; finalizing the last chapter of my book, creating the format for my new television special and adding the finishing touches to my cameo commercials. There was a great deal of time and effort put into these projects and I was having some doubts as to weather I was making the right decisions that would lead to a successful outcome.
The following morning I woke up at 4:47 am. I decided to get dressed and walk down to the lake, which is only 25 yards from the house. The view was captivating, equaled only by the silence. Unfortunately, the uncertainties of my projects were still lingering in my mind. I sat down on a rock and said a little prayer.
“I just want to know if I'm making the right decisions regarding my book, television special, and my cameo commercials. And I want to know if they will lead to the success I desire? I'm going to be bold and ask for a specific sign. If the answer to these questions is yes, then I want to see an Eagle soaring by sometime this morning."
When I finished the prayer I didn't have any expectations at all. I simply let it go and sat there in silence. Within 2 minutes the most beautiful Bald Eagle soared down about 20 yards in front of me. It skimmed the lake twice and then landed in a tree to my left. With a smile on my face, I looked up at the messenger to my prayer and said, "Thank you."
I was working diligently on a number of projects; finalizing the last chapter of my book, creating the format for my new television special and adding the finishing touches to my cameo commercials. There was a great deal of time and effort put into these projects and I was having some doubts as to weather I was making the right decisions that would lead to a successful outcome.
The following morning I woke up at 4:47 am. I decided to get dressed and walk down to the lake, which is only 25 yards from the house. The view was captivating, equaled only by the silence. Unfortunately, the uncertainties of my projects were still lingering in my mind. I sat down on a rock and said a little prayer.
“I just want to know if I'm making the right decisions regarding my book, television special, and my cameo commercials. And I want to know if they will lead to the success I desire? I'm going to be bold and ask for a specific sign. If the answer to these questions is yes, then I want to see an Eagle soaring by sometime this morning."
When I finished the prayer I didn't have any expectations at all. I simply let it go and sat there in silence. Within 2 minutes the most beautiful Bald Eagle soared down about 20 yards in front of me. It skimmed the lake twice and then landed in a tree to my left. With a smile on my face, I looked up at the messenger to my prayer and said, "Thank you."
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Taking Time Off Is Not A Waste Of Time
Lately, I've been hearing a lot people complaining that they are overwhelmed and stressed out over their jobs. One way to remedy work-related stress and overwhelm is to simply take some time off, even for just a short while, and do something that lifts you spirit. Why not? You deserve it!
Unfortunately, there are those who insist that they can't afford to spend time outside of the realm of their jobs and careers. In actuality, when you think of the consequences, you really can't afford not to. Taking time off is not a waste of time. It's a recharging of your inner battery.
This year I've been working diligently on a variety of new projects. These past few weeks I noticed I was feeling very anxious and my optimistic attitude was dissipating. I felt like I wasn't reaping the fruits of my labor fast enough and I had serious doubts they I ever would. It was obvious to me that the door to the "Negative Zone" was wide open and I was about to walk in. I wasn't going to let that happen.
I decided to take a four day weekend off from work, free from e-mails, cell phones, and text messages. In other words, I was putting my career on temporary hold. I promised myself that I would not take my job home with me and I would not make any decisions regarding my new projects. My only goal was to engage in activities that would make me feel good. That's exactly what I did.
Within those four days I read a book, spent quality time with my wife and family members, (4 Labs and 6 Exotic Birds) invited some friends for dinner and laughed my butt off!! These are the very things that nourish my soul and connect me to spirit. Somewhere along the way I lost site of that.
Taking time off was very refreshing to say the least. It made me realize that I was blowing most of my concerns out of proportion. I simply got caught up. We all do from time to time. This special time-out gave me the positive energy I needed to move forward with clarity and confidence.
I'm not asking you to run away from your problems at work. I'm suggesting that you simply step away. When you step away from the worry and chaos that so often comes with success, you are not quitting. You're energizing your spirit. And don't be surprised when you go back to work with solutions to problems and new insights on the very things that were causing you to feel stressed and overwhelmed.
Unfortunately, there are those who insist that they can't afford to spend time outside of the realm of their jobs and careers. In actuality, when you think of the consequences, you really can't afford not to. Taking time off is not a waste of time. It's a recharging of your inner battery.
This year I've been working diligently on a variety of new projects. These past few weeks I noticed I was feeling very anxious and my optimistic attitude was dissipating. I felt like I wasn't reaping the fruits of my labor fast enough and I had serious doubts they I ever would. It was obvious to me that the door to the "Negative Zone" was wide open and I was about to walk in. I wasn't going to let that happen.
I decided to take a four day weekend off from work, free from e-mails, cell phones, and text messages. In other words, I was putting my career on temporary hold. I promised myself that I would not take my job home with me and I would not make any decisions regarding my new projects. My only goal was to engage in activities that would make me feel good. That's exactly what I did.
Within those four days I read a book, spent quality time with my wife and family members, (4 Labs and 6 Exotic Birds) invited some friends for dinner and laughed my butt off!! These are the very things that nourish my soul and connect me to spirit. Somewhere along the way I lost site of that.
Taking time off was very refreshing to say the least. It made me realize that I was blowing most of my concerns out of proportion. I simply got caught up. We all do from time to time. This special time-out gave me the positive energy I needed to move forward with clarity and confidence.
I'm not asking you to run away from your problems at work. I'm suggesting that you simply step away. When you step away from the worry and chaos that so often comes with success, you are not quitting. You're energizing your spirit. And don't be surprised when you go back to work with solutions to problems and new insights on the very things that were causing you to feel stressed and overwhelmed.
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